When you think about your future, and your plans about how to become more successful, a lot of things start happening.

First of all, most likely you will get excited. Becoming the CEO of your life is a beautiful step. But something else might happen as well: you may start to doubt yourself.

Self-confidence is a choice

Because who are you? Will you be able to? Once I get more confidence, I will be able to. Then everything will be alright. And that’s the moment that you realise, to get to reaching your goals, you need self-confidence right now. You need to feel great about yourself right now. You need to feel as if you are already the successful person, the CEO, your version 10.0. You need that to reach the next level.

This realisation, may make you more insecure. As if you do not have enough confidence right now, how on earth will you ever reach that next level?


Choose personal leadership

It’s something that you feel; self-confidence. You are confident or you are not. Of course there are ways to boost your self confidence. As you can do with the power pose. Making yourself tall and broaden your body, embracing a confident posture, makes you feel more self-confident.

Which can be fleeting. And building on that self-confident feeling, may take a while. You can fast track this process. By choosing for personal leadership, taking ownership. Shift your thoughts of those of a victim to the thoughts of an owner.


Take ownership over your life

When you take ownership over your life, you take 100% responsibility for the life you live. You create from this state of mind. You will take action from a clear position, the state of mind of ownership. With this state of mind, you become the leader of your own life.

I am in control and I create these wanted circumstances in my life. In other words, you are the CEO of your life, you determine what happens.

Being a victim versus leadership

Everyone has thoughts of a victim, now and again. Something goes wrong and you’re thinking: why does this happen to me? You want something badly and it doesn’t work out: why does it just not work for me? It is not about ignoring those thoughts.

It’s about realising that you are thinking this, and making a conscious decision afterwards.


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You get to choose.

You can choose to be the leader over your own life, as you always have a fundamental choice:

1) fixate yourself on this thought of a victim, believe this thought and identify yourself with it;

2) having doubts about these thoughts of a victim, and deciding to let it go. Choosing for different thoughts, which make you feel better.

Becoming aware and choosing

When you will become aware of your thoughts, then the next step is to make a conscious decision to let these thoughts, of a victim, go. Choose for what it is you want. Look ahead. Don’t look back. Choose whatever thoughts make you feel good and go on from having these leadership thoughts.

By making a conscious decisions every time, you will reach your goal sooner. You will maintain your focus and you will have more success. You will boost your self confidence with making these conscious decisions. By choosing who it is you want to be.

Try this and you will be amazed. I’m not saying it is easy, but it can be done. Would you like some help? I would love to guide you. Send me an email and request your personal focus call with me, in which you will get three personalised tips.

Amaze Yourself,


P.S. Want to apply personal leadership to your life now? Cannot wait? Book a call with me now [click here to email me] and I will tell you how you can apply this to every situation you are in. Right here and now, you can change it around for the better.


Yvonne Dam is an online life coach who helps ambitious and successful Online-life-coach-Online-life-coaching-Life-coaching-online1people to enjoy life. She helps them to focus on what matters in their lives and careers, in order to make more money and achieve more freedom! After feeling trapped in the corporate world, Yvonne decided to do more of what she loved and found the more she chose to do what she wanted, the happier she became. Yvonne is passionate about coaching and sharing her expertise with you so you can be liberated to fully embrace life. Ready to pause your busy life for a moment and download some happy vibes? Get the FREE eBook and become happier! 

Yvonne Dam

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